Matter
Seriously just because I'm single everyone thinks I'm 24/7 free, I'm up for last minute plans all the time cause I'm so god damn free so there's no need to reply me asap. Really? Like this is the amount of respect I get just because of my relationship status. Hello? I not asking yall to commit what, "two friendship days a week" for me know? I understand it's only right to prioritise your partner so even if you don't have anything concrete planned and I ask you out, just tell me lah "Sorry might have plans with ____ tonight" or even if you're lazy just say it. I have my lazy days too which are basically, everyday? Yes, I am otaku af, yes I am totally not opposed to the idea of staying home. But please don't go thinking
"Aiya she'll be home anyway, I can just reply her whenever. If I do ask her out, I'm in fact doing her a favour."
So what if I'll be home? Ok because my phone will be beside me all the time I'll see notifs immediately. So... It's ok to keep me waiting for replies because I'll always be around anyway? I don't get it. Hahaha is my relationship status being abused right now? I guess now it's a crime to be single so I deserve the waiting lah I asked for it. Shame on me right not wanting to get attached ya I brought this upon myself by staying single. The way people treat or rather, mistreat, me sometimes really... It's like I'm not even human anymore. All I ask for is to not be treated like I'm not needed.
I get it, friends can never be as important as your better-halves are. So then does that make friends totally unimportant? Do attached people not need friends at all?
"Aiya she'll be home anyway, I can just reply her whenever. If I do ask her out, I'm in fact doing her a favour."
So what if I'll be home? Ok because my phone will be beside me all the time I'll see notifs immediately. So... It's ok to keep me waiting for replies because I'll always be around anyway? I don't get it. Hahaha is my relationship status being abused right now? I guess now it's a crime to be single so I deserve the waiting lah I asked for it. Shame on me right not wanting to get attached ya I brought this upon myself by staying single. The way people treat or rather, mistreat, me sometimes really... It's like I'm not even human anymore. All I ask for is to not be treated like I'm not needed.
I get it, friends can never be as important as your better-halves are. So then does that make friends totally unimportant? Do attached people not need friends at all?