Friends 5ever

Last night, I had my first girlfie stayover in the longest time ever, at Alik's with Shingz. Everytime I check our Whatsapp group chat, which really I dare say, is not very regular considering that I just came back to my phone after 1 week of my missing-in-action (for no reason except laziness I'm solly), I always get this feeling of bless overwhelming me like, "What in the world did I do in my past life to deserve this wonderful group of friends? What's more, GIRL friends to boot!"

When I say this I believe I am speaking for not only myself but trust me when I say this, GIRL friends are the easiest to come by but the most difficult to maintain a friendship with. And I've stuck to this belief since young, evidence being my group of friends being majority guys all the way from kindergarten in PAP to even now when I'm freshly graduated from Poly! As of now, the number of girl friends I've made can easily be counted in my head to less than 20 really.

I've always felt that friendships with girls are sooo bloody hard to maintain. Like everyone involved always and I really mean ALWAYS, have to make a conscious effort every single fucking day into texting, meeting often to catch-up and shit but hey, sometimes it gets really tiring yknow? And it makes me feel like, if friendships need to be dependent on daily texts for one to feel like that person is still within your circle of friends, then isn't that friendship particularly shallow and really quite meaningless?

What I love about my teamies is that we don't have to text everyday but when we text, it's the randomest (heck, that's not even a word) funniest most epic shit. We don't have to text everyday to know that we're all still precious to one another, that we're always there for one another, which essentially makes our friendship the definition of these two overused words (embarrassed to say I myself am guilty of overusing them *points to blog title above*), "Faith" and "Trust".